Chapter 3

May I ask you something?  If females are supposedly pre-conditioned to be skeptical in regards to what males say and do; why has it gotten easier to get the goodies? Shouldn’t the goodies be considered Sacred? Common, casual, hook ups with multiple partners carry consequences and are a current national epidemic. Young men everywhere think they can’t lose.  They think it’s great to be born male.

Listen, we know that sex sells but that doesn’t mean you have to buy it or believe it. There is abstinence. Current research shows the odds are not in favor of this happening. That’s just Dad being realistic:

You’re not super human, you’re just an Ordinary Girlbut, Oh how I pray!
You have to contend with; television; music videos; media print; Internet; fashion, beauty products… it’s everywhere. 

So when he asks you to send him a Dirty Picture because he hasn’t seen you today and he misses you, the answer is no.  Holding yourself to a higher standard can still bring Sexy Back, try it.

So ladies make him behave like a gentleman.  If he truly wants you, and he’s in for the long haul, he’ll wait.  If not, who loss?  Not yours.  It’s his lost - No one is Irreplaceable and You’re the Prize!  Don’t you like the sound of that?  The sound is firm.  The sound is empowering.

 The length of time you take is your decision and your decision alone. Whether the male in question is going to adhere to that decision is their choice – but you stand your ground.  Trust me you’ll both respect yourselves more if you wait. If he chooses to Walk Away, you didn’t need him anyway. 

Now, he’ll probably tell you that he can wait because you have the Lips Of An Angel and he doesn’t want to lose you. He’ll make the ultimate sacrifice, to keep his temptation checked and he’ll offer to put his Dick In A Box .  Be careful; that only lasts so long…

Next maneuver: He’ll say You’re The First, The Last, My Everything.  He’ll promise to make it Unforgettable and Unpredictable.  He likely told the last girl that too!  Try not to allow yourself to be played the fool.  Everybody Plays The Fool sometime, I know I did.  Polish your decision making skills & Breakaway.

Think about this and put some distance between you and him for awhile.

• no texting (sober or drunk)
• no phone conversations
• no quick glances
• no driving by his house
• or work…
• or school
• no seeking information from mutual friends

Nothing! 

Next time you see him have on your Red High Heels and favorite Blue Jeans looking happy. You’ll see his Face Drop.   This is better than you being Face Down.  He’ll throw on that smile, the one that kills and makes the London Bridge come down.  You know what smile I’m talking about.  He’ll give you that look that says, Co me To Me.   He’ll walk right over to you and say “Baby, I miss you….you know we belong together, you’re My Love.  “Baby, please tell me this is not the End of the Road.”

Careful here he’s looking for some capricious Feedback
Your response to Mr. Big Stuff -  
Don’t Phunk with My Heart… I’m not the one

He’s about to use the most basic of male defense strategies from the All Male Handbook I warned you about. 

Next comes:
The touch of the hand to the face,
Or the grab of the hand to caress
Or my favorite:  The use and distortion of biblical scriptures.

Politely remove his hand - look him right in the eye and say Don’t Lie you’re just a Womanizer and a Beautiful Monster, but I mind.  I’m not going to write you a Love Song to make you feel better.  Since You Been Gone my life is Just Fine!  I believe, What Goes Around…Comes Around so Cry Me A River and have a Beautiful Day !”

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This is a test of who you are and how you feel about yourself. There are 40 questions which will help determine where you are on the Power Meter. I believe that all women are born full and radiant and over-flowing with passion and purpose. As life goes on, some of the pure joy and innocence are taken away and replaced with vulnerability and control. Let’s see where your Power Meter is and look at what we can do to take back the power in your life! *This was not based on a scientific study it is strictly used as a visual tool.	How full is yours?